Am i in an abusive relationship?

I wouldn't call it abusive, but it seems to be unhealthy and he seems to be a major . If he loved you, he wouldn't force you to do things that you don't want, he wouldn't ignore you, and he wouldn't be interested in other girls. If I were you I would break up with him because he's nothing good and if you don't feel good with him then theres no reason to be with him!